Owe nothing to anyone, except to love one another;
for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law.
It is good to pay our debts as quickly as we are able. This is done out of respect for those to whom we owe such debts and also for the freedom that results when our debts our paid. When we owe money for this or that there are ways in which, not only our money, but our possible life choices are limited until payment is made. A loan or a mortgage requires that we be solicitous to maintain adequate employment to continue making payments. But once it is paid there are all kinds of new options available to us. We could move to a different country, or go on a mission trip, or accept a job that pays less but provides a greater sense of purpose.
However, there is one debt that takes precedence over all others, and that can never be fully or sufficiently paid and that is "to love one another". We can't love long enough or well enough that we can then forget about it and become selfish. We not only owe our neighbors for their own sakes which are finite, but also for the sake of the infinite God who made them. Therefore we can't allow ourselves to be content with weak or wishy-washy love. We certainly must avoid anything that would be harmful to them, as Paul writes, "Love does no evil to the neighbor; hence, love is the fulfillment of the law". But we can see from our other passages that the debt of love carries positive and not only negative demands.
I have appointed watchman for the house of Israel;
when you hear me say anything, you shall warn them for me.
We are not all appointed watchmen over the house of Israel in the way that those with authority in the Church are so appointed. But even we are required to not remain silent when the spiritual life of a sister or brother is at risk. When a brother sins against us we are not meant to ignore it, much less to use it as fodder for gossip. We are meant to take it seriously, taking whatever steps are necessary to win him over. We hope to be able to do this between ourselves and him lone. But, if not, objective third parties can be helpful. And when they are inadequate, someone who can speak clearly about the teaching of the Church whatever subject is in view can be invaluable.
If he refuses to listen even to the church,
then treat him as you would a Gentile or a tax collector.
If our brother refuses to listen even to the church we are not thereby discharged from the debt of love we owe to him. Rather, it takes on a different form, since the terms with which we can communicate with him are different from that of a brother with a common understanding of the faith. The goal of winning over the brother remains. But the way we try to do so is now more in keeping with how we appeal to those who have not yet accepted the Gospel message. It does not mean shunning such a one. Jesus did not avoid table fellowship with tax collectors and sinners. But he did recognize that they were not meant to remain in the condition in which he found them. What they needed, more than correction of individual behavior, was to hear the good news and come to saving faith. One who doubles down on sin to the degree that he will even ignore Church teaching on the matter is in a similar condition.
Again, amen, I say to you,
if two of you agree on earth
about anything for which they are to pray,
it shall be granted to them by my heavenly Father.
We are not meant to seek and save our lost brothers and sisters merely through our own persistence and cleverness. Rather, it is only the presence of Jesus himself in the midst of us that is capable of changing human hearts. Without him present we really have nowhere to point, nothing to offer, no real meat to the appeal we want to make. He is the center, the goal, the purpose of the law and of our lives. Love fulfills the law especially and particularly when we bring others into contact with the living Christ, present here and now among his people.
For where two or three are gathered together in my name,
there am I in the midst of them.
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