“Blessed is the womb that carried you
and the breasts at which you nursed.”
Family was a immensely important in ancient cultures, and Israel was no exception. In fact Israel understood better than any other nation the importance of family since they could see from the story of creation how it was God himself who invented it and went on to enshrine it in the commandments he gave to Moses. It was indeed through the particular family of Israel that God promised to bless the world, through a particular descendant of Abraham. God never revised or abolished any aspect of his law, and his high regard for family was no exception. Yet when Jesus came he brought with him a new reality that did make family less important by comparison. Family was still of great importance, but what he introduced was simply that much better.
He replied, “Rather, blessed are those
who hear the word of God and observe it.”
Mary was not blessed primarily because she gave birth to Jesus physically. Rather, as Elizabeth said, "Blessed are you who believed that what was spoken to you by the Lord would be fulfilled" (see Luke 1:45). She was in fact, more than all other humans of all times, one who heard the word of God and observed it. Without this faith she never would have had her physical connection to Jesus, for that required her to consent to obey the command of the angel, which in turn required her to believe him, and through him God himself. Only faith could convey the blessings God manifested in Jesus Christ to the world, whether that world was Jewish or Gentile. Jews had the law. But that law only acted as a custodian which pointed them toward Christ and offered correction when they transgressed. But it did not convey the blessings themselves, participation in the Sonship of Jesus, and the gift of his Spirit. Without these blessings everything was "confined" "under the power of sin". The law pointed in the direction of hope and made it clear why we had need to hope for more. Finally in Jesus the solution to the problem of human sinfulness had arrived. But the way to share in that promise was not through the law, not through any merely physical process like circumcision, but through being united to Jesus by faith in baptism.
Because faith in Jesus was necessary to receive the promise the importance of family was in some way relativized. Many good things came and would continue to come through families and they were still important. But one's ancestry was not sufficient to guarantee salvation. This remains true in the Kingdom. Even good Christian parents recognize that their best efforts are insufficient to ensure that their children go to heaven. The only thing that can ensure that is if the children themselves growing into individuals who choose to believe and obey God. In doing so they come to share, together with their earthly parents and all Christians, the Sonship of Christ.
We recognize that treating goods like family as absolutes can actually set them in conflict with better things that are higher in the divine hierarchy. We see this when family potentially prevents someone from heeding the call to follow Jesus. Sometimes this is probably just an excuse, as when a man refrained from following Jesus in order to bury his father. But it is possible, for instance, for parents to misuse their authority to command their children not to follow Christ. In such cases disobedience is not only permissible but required. It was in this sense that Jesus predicted, "They will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against her daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law" (see Luke 12:52), and why he insisted, "Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me" (see Matthew 10:37).
Loving anything, even the best things, more than Jesus is foolish since he is the source of all other blessings. Ultimately there is nothing else besides him, and those blessings we have in him, through him, and for him, that we can hold forever. It is in the sense that we may hope that even our natural bonds of family become bonds of faith that make us spiritual family. That which is not raised to the level of the spirit is destined to pass away. But if we are united in Christ then there is nothing, not even death itself that can separate us.
John Michael Talbot - Holy Is His Name
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